Powder the cashews into a finely in a mixer/blender and add ½ cup of water, make a smooth paste out of it – this is the cashew cream/milk. Set aside.
Chop onions and tomatoes into cubes. Sprinkle some water and set them on microwave high for 4-5 mins until they are cooked and there is no raw smell. Let them cool down completely. Make a smooth puree out of it. Set aside.
Chop Paneer into cubes. If taken out of fridge, immerse them in hot water for 5-6 mins. Set aside.
In a pan, heat butter/oil. Add dried bay leaf and ginger garlic paste. Sauté until the raw smell is gone. Add the pureed onion tomatoes. Sauté until the butter/oil starts to leave from edges.
Add all the masala powders – red chilli powder, garam masala powder, turmeric powder, sugar and salt. Mix well and cook for 3-4 mins on low flame until they are cooked. Add some water and let the gravy boil on low heat.
Add the prepared cashew cream/milk and mix well. Soon the gravy begins to thicken – add ½ cup of water as needed and boil the gravy for a couple of mins. Crush kasoor Methi/Dried fenugreek leaves between your palms and add it to the gravy. Add cubed paneer and mix well. On low heat boil the gravy for another 3-4 mins. Remove from heat.
Serve hot with rotis, kulcha, paratha or any Indian bread :)
Instead of cooking onion tomatoes in microwave, can be cooked on stove top too. Either use a teaspoon of oil or sprinkle some water and cook covered until they are tender.
I used cashew cream but instead of it, regular cream can be used too. When using fresh cream, don’t boil the gravy after adding it. There are chances of it curdling.
While making the cashew milk, I used my instant method of powdering them fine first followed by adding water. If you can plan ahead, soak them in some water for 30mins and then grind into a smooth paste – there is no difference in texture or taste.
Adding a small amount of sugar helps in cutting the tanginess of tomatoes. Butter makes this gravy rich but I have made it just oil or half-half oil-butter - works well too!
If the paneer is straight out of the fridge, immerse it in hot water for 5-6 mins so that it is soft again.
Dried Fenugreek Leaves or Kasoor Methi is very important for this dish. There is a slight bitterness in these leaves but they add to the taste of this gravy making it unique.
Always crush the Kasoor Methi/Dried Fenugreek Leaves before adding to the gravy to make them fragrant.